In order to correct a problem or change a set of circumstances, one must first identify the current situation. That part was easy for me. I had all sorts of adjectives to describe my present state. It was very simple for me to communicate all the things that were going wrong, and things that I didn’t want in my life.
In working with Emmanuel, my guide at Life Can be Different, I was attempting to uncover my life’s meaning, or purpose. I felt lost, without direction, and I certainly wasn’t reaching my financial goals. Through a series of exercises, I was able to name the things that were of interest to me, and begin to discover those activities that would give me more fulfillment and satisfaction.
There was a point where I felt as if I were stuck. I couldn’t move
Recently I have been on a journey, attempting to pin down what I should be doing with my life, and trying to figure out how I can make a greater impact with the talents I have been given. In the midst of philosophical discussions designed to uncover my optimal life, I had to put it all on hold to deal with some cold hard facts. I had to lay all my cards on the table, and state the true nature of my situation. It was easier to gloss over the details, skip the parts that were sensitive and difficult to admit. But I found it next to impossible to pretend that everything was satisfactory when that wasn’t the case at all. I had to address those troubles that needed immediate attention.
By facing my fears, uttering the truth that I didn’t want others to know or see, I was giving myself
Many times during a journey it may seem as if the traveler isn't making much progress. The scenery looks the same on the long stretches of deserted highway, and time drags on. There could even be a few unfortunate wrong turns and some backtracking required. The destination lies hundreds of miles away, and it seems as if you will never arrive. You might even be completely lost at some point, and it may be necessary to enlist the help of a local resident when you need direction.
That's just how I felt as I was navigating my way, trying to create a better life for myself. Fatigue and frustration had set in. It seemed that I was stuck in the same place, and that I had been traveling in circles, without making any forward progress.
On my trip, I came upon a knowledgeable
Like many people, I am searching for something. Answers to life’s questions, satisfaction, fulfillment, a path to a better life. Somehow, when exploring the vast world of the Internet, I happened upon an article by Yolanda Brand about being true to yourself, and I was compelled to reach out to her.
I sent an e-mail to this anonymous person on another continent, and explained the details of my situation. My family circumstances, career challenges, and financial difficulties. It was a shot in the dark, really. Previously I had contacted many people, here in my community, professionals and trusted friends, all without any measure of change or success. Maybe a stranger from another country could see something the others could not.
Yolanda responded soon after with a